I always think that a lot of people can change a lot in just a second. Are everyone like that or am I guessing things wrong. OK not in a split second but in quite a short time because of some experience he/she had.

But most people I saw until now change because of bad experience. People never learn much without some hardship. Through pain people learn some thing and become more matured or maybe become different, in some case 'unknown'. But those bad experience are truly just a step towards creating a better us if we know how to go through it.

Funny things too to see people change because of some random people who said that who we are right now is not who we should be. Who are they to judge. And how weak are we to easily listen to those words. We are what we are and we know ourselves better. Maybe some changes mention are good for us but how if those changes are unnecessary.

A person looks better when they act just how they are and for me, changes are needed only when our attitude brings harm and sadness to others. Not just because of some random words of saying that what we do is weird to their eyes. If our attitude irritates them, for me they should just back of and try to like it or pretend to at least like it.

Nothing personal here. Just expressing my opinion after seeing something which happen this few days. This things I said can actually be a lesson for myself not to do this to others. Who likes changes when we do feel comfortable with our own self. There is a saying that our attitude cannot be change after the age of 3. Is it true or not. I don't quite believe it myself.